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10 Must-Read Books for Christian Men on Marriage

Updated: Feb 29

Books For Christian Men

One of my mentors told me, “If you ever really want to get to know a man, simply ask his wife, talk to his children, and check out his personal library of books.”

I’ve learned over the years of mentoring, coaching, and counseling men that real men read more than just the sports pages, they also read the Bible.  But real men don’t stop at only reading the Word of God, they also read the books of great men whom God has raised up.  And as Christian men, if we’re not growing daily WITH Christ, then that means we’re slowly dying (spiritually) WITHOUT Him.

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As the podcast host of one of the top Christian Men’s podcasts in the world (Real Men Connect), I’ve had the privilege to interview more than 700+ guests on my show. So, it shouldn’t surprise you that I’m constantly asked about the books I read for spiritual growth (other than the Bible) -- especially when it comes to marriage and being a husband.  

And honestly, it’s too many great books to name the best.  So, I decided to narrow it down by compiling a list of 10 (in no particular order) of my favorite “must-read books” for married, Christian men.  

By no means is this an exhaustive list, and I’m sure I’ve probably left dozens of great ones off of it.  But I’ve not only read, used, and shared these 10 books with others, I’ve had the honor and privilege to either meet or interview most of these amazing authors one-on-one. So, rest assured that you too can read, use, and share each of these books with confidence.

Ten of the Best Christian Husband Books

Boundaries - by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend 

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In this New York Times best seller, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend help you learn when to say “yes” and know how to say “no” in order to take control of your life and set healthy, biblical boundaries with not only your wife, but also with your children, friends, parents, co-workers, and even yourself.

For Married Men Only – by Dr. Tony Evans 

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What does it really mean for a husband to love his wife?  In this book, Dr. Tony Evans says a husband must be his wife's savior, sanctifier, and satisfier.  And it is by living out these three principles that a godly marriage will blossom and flourish; and he explores and explains each of these principles using real-life examples. 

Loose That Man and Let Him Go – by T.D. Jakes

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In this book T. D. Jakes offers clarity, healing, and restoration to a generation of men--both believers and nonbelievers who are confused about their purpose, vision, and roles in today's modern culture. He teaches men and husbands to let Jesus take hold of their limitations and bondages and how to step into the light of all God has planned for them. 

Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away - by Gary Chapman 

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If you’re struggling with NOT knowing what to do when you feel like giving up, then this a must-read book for you.  As men, most, if not all of us, entered marriage with high hopes, dreaming it would be supremely happy.  And no man has ever intended for it to be miserable. In this book, Gary Chapman gives men hope in what may seem to be a hopeless marriage.

Model Man – by Larry Stockstill

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In this confused, chaotic world, men are not only looking for mentors and role models, but they’re also desiring to be “model men”: a man who possesses the qualities of integrity, purity, balance, purpose, a model marriage, model children, and a powerful legacy. This is a practical guidebook to manhood, and Larry Stockstill describes this “model man” and his own personal journey from “integrity to legacy.” 

Sacred Marriage - by Gary Thomas

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What if God designed your marriage to make you holy instead of happy? What if your relationship isn't as much about you and your spouse as it is about you and God? In this best-selling book, Gary Thomas uncovers the ways that your marriage can become a doorway to a closer walk with God and with each other. 

The 5 Money Personalities - Scott & Bethany Palmer

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The hidden key to a healthy relationship is not just managing money but understanding how the other approaches money. And the fact is, every couple argues about money. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been married for 40 years or dating for 4 months, money touches every decision you make as a couple. And when the two of you don’t see eye-to-eye on how much to spend or how much to save, that’s when arguments turn into ugly toxic fights that leave both persons feeling hurt and angry. 

The Five Love Languages – by Gary Chapman

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A great marriage is all about skillful communication. And is this book, Dr. Gary Chapman identifies five basic languages of love and then guides couples towards a better understanding of their unique languages of love. He teaches you how to learn to speak and understand your mate's love language, so you will be able to effectively love and truly feel loved in return. 

The Power of a Praying Husband – by Stormie Omartian 

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In this book, Stormie Ormartian will help you find the excitement and hope that come from inviting the God, who hears and answers prayer, into your marriage. Packed with real-life examples and refreshing honesty regarding her own marriage, Stormie teachers you how to lovingly intercede for your wife in every area of her life, including her priorities, emotions, motherhood, fears, and sexuality.

The Triumphant Marriage – by Neil Clark Warren

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Want to know the 10 secrets of 100 (that’s right 100) extremely successful, Christian couples? Then check out this book by Neil Clark Warren (the creator and founder of eHarmony). He reveals the “10 special somethings” that enables certain couples to stay happily married for their entire lives.

Wisdom Is Best Found From The Men Before Us & God

The journey of a Christian man towards spiritual and marital growth is a continuous one, enriched by the wisdom found in the pages of great books. These books, written by esteemed authors, offer a spectrum of wisdom. While this list is far from exhaustive, each book is a testament to the transformative power of applying biblical principles in marriage and personal growth. Whether you're facing challenges or seeking to deepen your relationship with God and your spouse, these books serve as invaluable resources on your journey.

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