Why Should I Forgive (EP:1033)
- Dr. Joe Martin

- 18 hours ago
- 2 min read
Discover why forgiveness isn’t about letting them off the hook—it’s about setting yourself free.
Forgiveness sounds good on paper… until you’re the one who has to give it.
In Episode 1033 of the Real Men Connect podcast, Dr. Joe Martin breaks down one of the most misunderstood commands in Scripture—forgiveness. Whether you’ve been lied to, betrayed, abandoned, or hurt deeply by someone you trusted, the Bible still calls us to forgive.
But why? And how?
This episode isn’t just theory—it’s a roadmap for real men who want to break free from bitterness and walk in the kind of strength only grace can offer.

Key Highlights from This Episode
Forgiveness isn’t a feeling—it’s a decision.
If you're waiting to feel like forgiving, you may never do it. Joe reminds us that forgiveness is a command, not a suggestion. And it’s not about excusing the offense—it’s about refusing to carry the weight anymore.
“Forgiveness is choosing to set a prisoner free... and realizing the prisoner was you.”
Unforgiveness blocks your connection with God.
Holding onto anger and resentment might feel justified, but it silently hardens your heart—and puts distance between you and your Heavenly Father. Joe challenges us to consider that choosing not to forgive may be the very thing keeping you stuck spiritually.
You can forgive someone without trusting them again.
Forgiveness isn’t the same as reconciliation. Joe breaks down the difference clearly: trust must be rebuilt, but forgiveness can be given freely. It’s not about forgetting—it’s about moving forward.
“Forgiveness sets the stage for healing. Trust rebuilds the relationship.”

Brother, forgiveness doesn’t mean weakness—it means freedom. And if you’ve been holding on to pain, pride, or resentment, now is the time to let it go.
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